{"id":34735,"date":"2021-01-06T21:47:19","date_gmt":"2021-01-07T02:47:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.staging4.blunt-therapy.com\/?p=34735"},"modified":"2021-12-12T21:19:19","modified_gmt":"2021-12-13T02:19:19","slug":"toxic-relationship-traits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/toxic-relationship-traits\/","title":{"rendered":"9 Toxic Relationship Traits You Should Never Ignore"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_65 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/toxic-relationship-traits\/#9_Common_Toxic_Relationship_Traits\" title=\"9 Common Toxic Relationship Traits\">9 Common Toxic Relationship Traits<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/toxic-relationship-traits\/#1_Jealousy\" title=\"1. Jealousy\">1. Jealousy<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/toxic-relationship-traits\/#2_Narcissistic_behaviors\" title=\"2. Narcissistic behaviors\">2. Narcissistic behaviors<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/toxic-relationship-traits\/#3_Your_needs_are_ignored\" title=\"3. Your needs are ignored\">3. Your needs are ignored<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/toxic-relationship-traits\/#4_Constant_stress\" title=\"4. Constant stress\">4. Constant stress<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/toxic-relationship-traits\/#5_Controlling_Behaviors\" title=\"5. Controlling Behaviors\">5. Controlling Behaviors<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/toxic-relationship-traits\/#6_Holding_on_to_the_past\" title=\"6. Holding on to the past\">6. Holding on to the past<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/toxic-relationship-traits\/#7_Blaming_others\" title=\"7. Blaming others\">7. Blaming others<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/toxic-relationship-traits\/#9_Dishonesty_and_lack_of_trust\" title=\"9. Dishonesty and lack of trust\">9. Dishonesty and lack of trust<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/toxic-relationship-traits\/#Final_Thoughts\" title=\"Final Thoughts \">Final Thoughts <\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/toxic-relationship-traits\/#References\" title=\"References\">References<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n<p>These days, the word \u201ctoxic\u201d gets thrown around like confetti. Anything that someone disagrees with gets labeled as toxic. As a result, that term has lost all meaning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It can be hard to recognize toxic relationship traits, especially when you&#8217;re in love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of us were never taught how to be a good partner, let alone how to recognize the warning signs of an <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/signs-of-an-emotionally-abusive-relationship\/\" class=\"rank-math-link\">unhealthy relationship<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, we learn as we go. Our relationship experiences consist of trial and error.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/9-Toxic-Relationship-Traits-You-Should-Never-Ignore-2.jpg\" alt=\"9 Toxic Relationship Traits You Should Never Ignore\" class=\"wp-image-34741 lazyload\" width=\"400\" height=\"600\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/9-Toxic-Relationship-Traits-You-Should-Never-Ignore-2.jpg\" alt=\"9 Toxic Relationship Traits You Should Never Ignore\" class=\"wp-image-34741 lazyload\" width=\"400\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/9-Toxic-Relationship-Traits-You-Should-Never-Ignore-2.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/9-Toxic-Relationship-Traits-You-Should-Never-Ignore-2-83x125.jpg 83w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/9-Toxic-Relationship-Traits-You-Should-Never-Ignore-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/9-Toxic-Relationship-Traits-You-Should-Never-Ignore-2-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/9-Toxic-Relationship-Traits-You-Should-Never-Ignore-2-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/noscript><figcaption>9 Toxic Relationship Traits You Should Never Ignore<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9_Common_Toxic_Relationship_Traits\"><\/span>9 Common Toxic Relationship Traits<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/symptoms-of-a-toxic-relationship\/\" class=\"rank-math-link\">toxic relationship<\/a> is defined by a pervasive and harmful pattern of abuse. Perpetrated by one or both partners, it is marked by deceit, selfishness, jealousy, and desire for control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Often there is still love present in toxic <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" data-wpil=\"url\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/category\/relationships\/\" title=\"relationships\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\">relationships<\/a> and this is where things start to get messy. It can be much harder to recognize toxic relationship traits when there is still love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To help identify whether a relationship is toxic, be on the lookout for the following signs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Jealousy\"><\/span>1. Jealousy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s normal to be jealous of others from time to time. Habitual jealousy, though, is a toxic relationship trait you should never ignore. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Does your partner fly into a rage when you talk to anyone else? Do they belittle your accomplishments or discourage you from spending time with your friends? Those are all textbook examples of jealousy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eventually, you will end up hiding your happiness, just to avoid upsetting your partner. A relationship marked by fear is not one you should continue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Narcissistic_behaviors\"><\/span>2. Narcissistic behaviors<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/techniques-narcissists-use\/\" class=\"rank-math-link\">Narcissism <\/a>is characterized by an inflated sense of importance, a sense of entitlement, and a lack of empathy, among other criteria.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A narcissist is often very charming. That\u2019s why people fall for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, once you have settled into the relationship, the cracks start to form in their fa\u00e7ade. They may start to pick on you and belittle you. And in an argument, they may never want to reach an agreement \u2013 instead insisting they are always right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/how-to-gray-rock-method-a-narcissist\/\" title=\"Narcissists\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\">Narcissists<\/a> often gaslight their partners. They do this with false accusations and by twisting your words. Their behaviors will make you question reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gaslighting is a form of manipulation and <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" href=\"narcissistic-abuse\" title=\"emotional abuse\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\">emotional abuse<\/a>. If you are experiencing any forms of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/how-to-deal-with-narcissistic-rage\/\" class=\"rank-math-link\">narcissistic abuse<\/a> &#8211; leave the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Your_needs_are_ignored\"><\/span>3. Your needs are ignored<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Your needs are not negotiable. Your needs are needs. That&#8217;s why they are called &#8220;needs&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether you need affection, quality time, personal space, or time with a friend &#8211; your partner doesn&#8217;t get to decide what you do and do not need. You do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A good partner will cater to your needs. A bad partner ignores them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Constant_stress\"><\/span>4. Constant stress<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Toxic relationship traits are torture to endure. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/pay-attention-to-chronic-stress\/\" class=\"rank-math-link\">Constant stress<\/a> is a natural symptom of a relationship that has turned sour. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stress takes a toll on both your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/how-does-the-gig-economy-affect-your-mental-health\/\">mental and physical health<\/a>. If you have reached the point where you are constantly feeling stressed about your relationship, it may be time to let go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe class=\"lazyload\" title=\"12 Warning Signs of a Toxic Relationship\" width=\"1170\" height=\"658\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/y2AcONxYgyU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption>12 Warning Signs of a Toxic Relationship. Courtesy, YouTube.<br><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Controlling_Behaviors\"><\/span>5. Controlling Behaviors<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Are there certain activities you are not allowed to take part in, or people you don\u2019t see because your partner forbids it? This is a violation of your independence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being in a relationship does not mean that you surrender your right to make decisions. You&#8217;re not a child. You don&#8217;t deserve to be treated like one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Holding_on_to_the_past\"><\/span>6. Holding on to the past<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Does your partner like to bring up past indiscretions? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s one thing to learn from mistakes. It&#8217;s another thing to weaponize them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Abusers love to use guilt as an instrument of control. Perhaps you messed up in the past. Perhaps your partner knows you feel guilty about it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But if your partner habitually uses your past against you, it&#8217;s time to put your relationship out to pasture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Blaming_others\"><\/span>7. Blaming others<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If your partner blames others for what is going wrong in their life, they will never grow. Whether they blame you, their family, their boss, or their friends, it&#8217;s a toxic and corrosive behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We all need to realize that there will always be external factors. But how we live our lives is solely our own decision. And our own responsibility.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For a relationship to succeed both parties need to own their problems and commit to working on them. If they don&#8217;t, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/category\/relationships\/\">relationship<\/a> will suffer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>8. You can&#8217;t be yourself around your partner<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you feel more like yourself when you are alone? Do you hide your true self around your partner? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everyone makes small changes to their personality based on who they are with. But it&#8217;s unhealthy to feel like you have to hide your true self from your partner. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9_Dishonesty_and_lack_of_trust\"><\/span>9. Dishonesty and lack of trust<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Once trust is lost it is difficult to regain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toxic behaviors like cheating and dishonesty make trust in a relationship impossible. Dishonest behaviors are instant dealbreakers in healthy relationships. In <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/signs-of-an-emotionally-abusive-relationship\/\" class=\"rank-math-link\">toxic relationships<\/a>, they are standard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If this describes you or your partner, it&#8217;s time to make a change. There is no such thing as a healthy relationship if it does not involve trust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Final_Thoughts\"><\/span>Final Thoughts <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Recognizing toxic relationship traits is the first step in removing yourself from one. It is often hard to do. Nobody likes to admit that a relationship is failing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But toxic relationships are hazardous to your physical and <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" data-wpil=\"url\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/category\/mental-health\/\" title=\"mental health\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\">mental health<\/a>. You have to take steps to protect yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your partner is willing to work on these issues, consider couples <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/how-to-get-results-in-therapy\/\" title=\"counseling\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\">counseling<\/a> with a mental health professional. If they refuse to admit there is a problem, the relationship won&#8217;t survive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"References\"><\/span>References<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul><li><a aria-label=\"Is Your Relationship Toxic? (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.healthline.com\/health\/toxic-relationship\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" class=\"rank-math-link\">Is Your Relationship Toxic?<\/a><\/li><li><a aria-label=\"How To Tell If You&#039;re In a Toxic Relationship \u2014 And What To Do About It (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/time.com\/5274206\/toxic-relationship-signs-help\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" class=\"rank-math-link\">How To Tell If You&#8217;re In a Toxic Relationship \u2014 And What To Do About It<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/the-angry-therapist\/202001\/5-signs-toxic-relationship\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"5 Signs of a Toxic Relationship (opens in a new tab)\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" class=\"rank-math-link\">5 Signs of a Toxic Relationship<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<section class=\"wp-block-uagb-section uagb-section__wrap uagb-section__background-color uagb-block-540ad93d\"><div class=\"uagb-section__overlay\"><\/div><div class=\"uagb-section__inner-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-call-to-action uagb-block-73105e3b wp-block-button\"><div class=\"uagb-cta__wrap\"><h5 class=\"uagb-cta__title\">Private Practice  with No Overhead and No Shortage of Clients.<br><\/h5><p class=\"uagb-cta__desc\">Join\u00a0the more than 34,000 full and part-time therapists who are earning more with BetterHelp! 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