{"id":341,"date":"2020-10-09T10:15:11","date_gmt":"2020-10-09T14:15:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.randywithers.com\/?p=341---afaf6257-0fa3-4c3a-9ced-b247096be3eb"},"modified":"2021-12-14T20:02:57","modified_gmt":"2021-12-15T01:02:57","slug":"questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist\/","title":{"rendered":"Here Are 5 Great Questions To Ask When Choosing A New Therapist"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_65 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist\/#1_What_Type_of_Therapist_Are_They\" title=\"1. What Type of Therapist Are They?\">1. What Type of Therapist Are They?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist\/#2_Are_They_Required_To_Diagnose_You\" title=\"2. Are They Required To Diagnose You?\">2. Are They Required To Diagnose You?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist\/#3_What_About_Confidentiality\" title=\"3. What About Confidentiality?\">3. What About Confidentiality?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist\/#4_What_Is_Their_Theoretical_Orientation\" title=\"4. What Is Their Theoretical Orientation?\">4. What Is Their Theoretical Orientation?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist\/#5_What_About_Their_Experience\" title=\"5. What About Their Experience?\">5. What About Their Experience?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist\/#Final_Thoughts\" title=\"Final Thoughts\">Final Thoughts<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist\/#Suggested_Reading\" title=\"Suggested Reading:\">Suggested Reading:<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n<p>Are you in the market for a new therapist? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are new to therapy, the whole process may seem a bit overwhelming. I know it was for me when I first started my own journey of recovery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To help you find a therapist that is right for you, I&#8217;m going to suggest a few questions to ask your new therapist before you even start seeing them. You might not have thought of these, but they are important just the same. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/5-great-questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist-4.jpg\" alt=\"5 great questions to ask your new therapist\" class=\"wp-image-35672 lazyload\" width=\"400\" height=\"600\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/5-great-questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist-4.jpg\" alt=\"5 great questions to ask your new therapist\" class=\"wp-image-35672 lazyload\" width=\"400\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/5-great-questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist-4.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/5-great-questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist-4-83x125.jpg 83w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/5-great-questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/5-great-questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist-4-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/5-great-questions-to-ask-your-new-therapist-4-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/noscript><figcaption>5 Great Questions to Ask Your New Therapist<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>By doing so, it&#8217;s my hope that you will:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Better understand what your therapist can do for you<\/li><li>Establish a professional rapport with them<\/li><li>Feel more comfortable about starting <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" data-wpil=\"url\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/category\/therapy\/\" title=\"therapy\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\">therapy<\/a>.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Let&#8217;s get to it, shall we?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/18-600x315.jpg\" alt=\"What Type of Therapist Are They?\" class=\"wp-image-29432 lazyload\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/18-600x315.jpg\" alt=\"What Type of Therapist Are They?\" class=\"wp-image-29432 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/18-600x315.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/18-400x210.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/18-200x105.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/18-768x403.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/18.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/noscript><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"0--first-what-kind-of-therapist-are-they-\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_What_Type_of_Therapist_Are_They\"><\/span>1. <strong>What Type of Therapist Are They?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Just like doctors, lawyers, engineers, and mustard, therapists come in many varieties. So, let\u2019s first clarify what we mean by \u201ctherapist.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Technically, the term is \u201cpsychotherapist,\u201d but clinicians tend to use that label with caution, as it sounds a bit\u2026&nbsp;<em>clinical<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even among psychotherapists, there are different types. They all are trained to help you, but what they can do varies by license, experience, and training. You can find hundreds of&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologyhelp.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">online therapists<\/a>&nbsp;that specialize in helping people with different problems. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The following list should give you a basic idea of the differences:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Psychiatrists (MD) are medical doctors who can prescribe medication.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Psychiatrists practice in all sorts of different places\u200a\u2014\u200ahospitals, community agencies, and in private practice. They are trained in some form of <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/how-to-get-results-in-therapy\/\" title=\"psychotherapy\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\">psychotherapy<\/a>, but medication management is often a defining component of their care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because they can prescribe medication, psychiatrists are often in high demand. If you don\u2019t need medication, or you have a doctor who already prescribes your medications, then consider other types of therapists who are more readily available.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Psychologists (Ph.D., PsyD, LPA) practice at both the masters and doctoral levels. One critical distinction between a psychologist and a psychiatrist is that most psychologists can\u2019t prescribe medications. <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Movies and TV shows&nbsp;<a class=\"ek-link ek-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/lies-about-narcotics-anonymous\/\">get this wrong all the time<\/a>. The character is seeing a psychologist and at the end of the session, the psychologist writes a script for Xanax and the client goes on their way. That\u2019s not how it works in real life. Only medical professionals can do that\u200a\u2014\u200adoctors, physician\u2019s assistants, nurse practitioners, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Psychologist\u2019s forte is testing and evaluation. School psychologists, for example, are often involved in the creation of IEPs that are developed based on testing that the psychologist performs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At the agency or hospital level, they write psychological evaluations based on tests that can cover dozens of different issues\u200a\u2014\u200aIQ, ADHD, PTSD, personality disorders, level of depression or anxiety or schizophrenia, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are many different types of psychologists with many different types of specializations. Psychologists tend to see clients with pervasive mental illness, or personality disorders. Like Psychiatrists, they are also in high demand due to these skill sets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFT), as the name implies, deal with issues related to marriage and family. <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&#8217;re looking for couples counseling, consider finding a good LMFT. Sometimes, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/toxic-parenting\/\" class=\"rank-math-link\">entire families need therapy<\/a>, too. They can handle that as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSW) and Licensed Professional Counselors (LPC) are similar in most respects.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>An LCSW has more training when it comes to the coordination of social services, and LPCs focus more on a wellness model for their clients, but in practical application, the two are similar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many LPCs and LCSWs tend to specialize\u200a\u2014\u200asome work with small children and some maybe exclusively work with adults, or teenagers, or couples. Mood Disorders, PTSD,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/what-is-depression\/\">depression&nbsp;<\/a>and anxiety, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/how-to-help-an-addict\/\" class=\"rank-math-link\">addictions <\/a>are all examples of specializations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Has all of this left you confused?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fortunately, this information is all readily available as part of a therapist&#8217;s Informed Consent, which you will often get before you even sit down for your first session. Depending on where you go, you will often get a batch of paperwork to read and fill out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a good idea to read this information. It should tell you exactly what type of therapist they are, what they specialize in, and what type of clients they see. If not, here\u2019s a suggestion:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ask them!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You have a right to know this information, and it\u2019s a great question to ask your new therapist before you begin. This may seem obvious, but you\u2019d be surprised how many clients are afraid to ask basic questions that they have a right to know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Insider Tip:<\/strong><em>&nbsp;If a therapist has an office assistant, like someone who schedules the appointment, they may not be the best person to ask. When in doubt, ask the therapist directly. They\u2019ll be pleased you did.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/21-1-600x315.jpg\" alt=\"Will My Therapist Diagnose Me?\" class=\"wp-image-29435 lazyload\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/21-1-600x315.jpg\" alt=\"Will My Therapist Diagnose Me?\" class=\"wp-image-29435 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/21-1-600x315.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/21-1-400x210.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/21-1-200x105.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/21-1-768x403.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/21-1.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/noscript><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"1--second-are-they-required-to-diagnose-you-\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Are_They_Required_To_Diagnose_You\"><\/span>2. <strong>Are They Required To Diagnose You?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Unless you are paying out-of-pocket, meaning that the insurance company is not involved, you will probably leave your therapist\u2019s office with a <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" data-wpil=\"url\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/category\/mental-health\/\" title=\"mental health\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\">mental health<\/a> diagnosis. The same basic thing happens when you go to your doctor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doctors have a code for everything. Got the flu? There\u2019s a code for that. Carpal tunnel? There\u2019s a code for that, too. It\u2019s how doctors get paid. They submit these codes to your insurance company, and they get reimbursed for their services.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s not really that big a deal, though. Or is it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you use insurance, know that most cases, a therapist must submit a diagnostic code to get paid by the insurance company. We use the DSM 5, which is an acronym for the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Version 5. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The DSM is a catalog of every <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/benefits-of-hypnotherapy\/\">mental health<\/a> disorder known to man. And if your therapist wants to get paid, they will need to submit a diagnosis. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are a few examples:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>296.33 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/what-is-major-depression\/\" class=\"rank-math-link\">Major Depressive Disorder<\/a>, Severe, Recurrent<\/li><li>307.51 Bulimia Nervosa<\/li><li>302.72 Erectile Disorder<\/li><li>292.0 Caffeine Withdrawal<\/li><li>300.02 Generalized Anxiety Disorder<\/li><li>309.0 Adjustment Disorder with Depressed Mood<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>As you can see, they get specific. Who knew caffeine withdrawal was a thing? At any rate, many therapists loathe having to give a diagnosis after only one session, but this is the system we work in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re having a bad day and you just need to vent to somebody, there is no corresponding code. Likely, it would be coded as an \u201cAdjustment Disorder.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/recommends\/talkspace\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"sponsored, nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/talkspace-ad-x600-450x300.jpg\" alt=\"TalkSpace\" class=\"wp-image-24356 lazyload\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"450\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/talkspace-ad-x600-450x300.jpg\" alt=\"TalkSpace\" class=\"wp-image-24356 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/talkspace-ad-x600-450x300.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/talkspace-ad-x600-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/talkspace-ad-x600-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/talkspace-ad-x600.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><figcaption>Get $80 off your membership with FALL80<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Say you\u2019ve just moved to a new town and you\u2019re feeling lonely and your sleep cycle has been disrupted because you\u2019re in a new time zone. That\u2019s an example of an adjustment disorder. Relative to some other conditions, it\u2019s mild.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, other diagnoses can have long-term implications, and not just on your mental health. For example, some mental health conditions affect life insurance rates. Others will disqualify you from certain types of jobs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But that information is confidential, you say? Yes. Yes, it is. Except, no\u200a\u2014\u200ait\u2019s&nbsp;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" class=\"rank-math-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.quotacy.com\/how-does-depression-affect-life-insurance-rates\/\" target=\"_blank\">not<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You have a right to know that your insurance company will be notified of your diagnosis unless you are private pay, which means that you are paying 100% of the fees associated with therapy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Insider Tip:<\/strong><em><strong>&nbsp;<\/strong>If you have concerns about a diagnosis becoming part of your permanent medical record, this is another one of those excellent questions to ask your new therapist. Inquire about private pay options if this is a concern<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/20-1-600x315.jpg\" alt=\"Is What We Talk About Confidential?\" class=\"wp-image-29434 lazyload\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/20-1-600x315.jpg\" alt=\"Is What We Talk About Confidential?\" class=\"wp-image-29434 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/20-1-600x315.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/20-1-400x210.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/20-1-200x105.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/20-1-768x403.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/20-1.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/noscript><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"2--third-what-about-confidentiality-\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_What_About_Confidentiality\"><\/span>3. <strong>What About Confidentiality?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Trust is a critical part of the therapeutic relationship. If I am your therapist and you are my client, you have to know that I\u2019m not going to be gossiping about your personal life to the cashier at Walmart, or discussing your history with anyone with whom you have not specifically asked me to do so. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What is said in therapy stays in therapy. That\u2019s just a given. Or is it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You have a right to know that there are limits to confidentiality. This is something that your therapist should discuss with you, but often this information is part of that packet you get when you first make the appointment. Many people sign and initial without fully reading the documentation, and this could lead to a problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Clients need to have a frank discussion with their therapist about confidentiality, and this really should be an ongoing conversation. As therapy continues, new issues are bound to surface, and a client needs to know what a therapist can keep quiet about and what he or she cannot. Here are some points to consider:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Confidentiality is an ethical concept, not a legal one. The term \u201cprivileged\u201d denotes something that is protected by law. This is an important distinction.<\/li><li>There are times when the law requires therapists to break confidentiality.<\/li><li>A therapist can be compelled by a judge to testify in court. This happens a lot during child custody hearings, especially when one or both spouses have seen a therapist.<\/li><li>If you are a minor, confidentiality is essentially up to your parents. Clients under the age of eighteen should talk with their therapist about what can stay between them, and what goes back to mom and dad.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Suicidal intent, homicidal intent, suspected abuse of children or the elderly, and imminent threat to the client or someone else are all potential reasons why a therapist could break confidentiality. This list is not all-inclusive. The nature of confidentiality is one of the many perfectly reasonable questions to ask your new therapist.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All therapists must observe an ethical mandate called \u201cDuty to Warn.\u201d In some states this is a legal requirement, but not in all. \u201cDuty to Warn\u201d means that if the therapist has reason to believe that you plan on hurting someone (say, for example, an ex-girlfriend)\u200a\u2014\u200athey are obligated to reach out to that person and warn them specifically. They will also alert the police.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Insider Tip:<em>&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><em>Some therapists are good about going over this stuff; some are not. Advocate for yourself! Bring questions to ask your new therapist. You have that right.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/19-1-600x315.jpg\" alt=\"What Is A Theoretical Orientation?\" class=\"wp-image-29433 lazyload\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/19-1-600x315.jpg\" alt=\"What Is A Theoretical Orientation?\" class=\"wp-image-29433 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/19-1-600x315.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/19-1-400x210.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/19-1-200x105.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/19-1-768x403.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/19-1.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/noscript><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_What_Is_Their_Theoretical_Orientation\"><\/span>4. <strong>What Is Their Theoretical Orientation<\/strong>?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019ve ever seen therapy on TV or in a movie, it\u2019s usually not an accurate depiction, namely because real therapy does not make for good TV. Often, you see the client lying on a couch and talking about his or her dreams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What you are seeing is a Hollywood \u201cinterpretation\u201d of Freudian Psychoanalysis, which is an example of theoretical orientation. Freud believed that dreams offered insight into our unconscious mind, that the past dictated the future, that procreation was a driving force in our lives. He believed in other stuff too, but you get the picture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These ideas, or theories, guided, or oriented, his belief system about therapy. Thus, the term \u201ctheoretical orientation\u201d can be loosely defined as a set of ideas to which a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/online-therapy-tips\/\">therapist subscribes about how to affect positive change through therapy<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>More than 100 years after Freud literally wrote the book on Psychoanalysis, there are a few dozen different theoretical orientations that therapists use in various ways. Too many to list here, but suffice to say, it\u2019s a good idea that you know which one(s) your therapist uses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re curious to know if there is one that tends to be more popular with therapists, there is. It\u2019s called CBT, or Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy. Basically, the theory says that our thinking dictates the way we feel. If our thinking is screwed up, it follows that our feelings will be, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>CBT is likely what your therapist uses. But as I said, there are a few dozen different theories in current application today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Theoretical orientation is important because it can have a direct impact on the following:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>The therapist\u2019s belief about the relationship between client and counselor<\/li><li>The therapist\u2019s belief about the nature of change (which is why you are there in the first place, probably).<\/li><li>Interventions that they use to bring about said change.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Insider Tip:&nbsp;<\/strong><em>These days, many therapists like to pull from several different theories, the idea being that humans are too complex for any one theory to cover. This is known as eclecticism. A therapist should be more than willing to discuss this with you. Many clients never ask, so you may find that they are pleasantly surprised to get the question!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/22-600x315.jpg\" alt=\"Does Experience Matter?\" class=\"wp-image-29436 lazyload\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/22-600x315.jpg\" alt=\"Does Experience Matter?\" class=\"wp-image-29436 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/22-600x315.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/22-400x210.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/22-200x105.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/22-768x403.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/22.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/noscript><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"4--fifth-what-about-their-experience-\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_What_About_Their_Experience\"><\/span>5. <strong>What About Their Experience?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There are two types of experience\u200a\u2014\u200aPersonal and Professional. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/category\/mental-health\/\">Mental Health<\/a> is one of those fields where your personal experience can be either a great asset or a great detriment, depending on how you use it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Professional experience, on the other hand, deals with education, training, supervision, and research. Anyone can take a course on schizophrenia, but that doesn\u2019t mean they know what it\u2019s like to be schizophrenic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But does a therapist need to have personally experienced every condition they treat? Is that even realistic?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A therapist\u2019s most important tool is empathy, which is the ability to walk in someone else\u2019s shoes without being that person. Empathy may very well be the most important tool in a counselor\u2019s toolbox. It would be a lot to ask a therapist to have personal experience with every single mental health issue known to man. That would drive them insane!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Personal experience can be an extremely useful tool. It also has drawbacks. Therapists are human. They are subject to the same biases, cultural affiliations, and dogmatic beliefs as anyone else. They are, however, trained to set those things aside. But they are only human.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Professional experience, on the other hand, should be readily available to you. Again, I return to Informed Consent. In this packet of information, therapists usually list their education, certifications, and areas of specialization.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At this point, it is important to note that there are many excellent therapists who do not have specific certifications in areas in which they excel. I know one doctorate level <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/resources\/for-counselors\/\">counselor who is an outstanding play therapist<\/a>, but he holds no official certification.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That said, a therapist usually lists basic information about the type of person he or she sees, and for what. An example: \u201cDr. Awesome works with teenagers and adults in individual and group settings and specializes in depression, anxiety, anger management, and conflict resolution.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When shopping for a good therapist, please note that there are certain disorders that require specialized training. This is not an exhaustive list, but may include the following:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Eating Disorders<\/li><li>Personality Disorders like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/borderline-personality-disorder\/\" class=\"rank-math-link\">Borderline Personality Disorder<\/a><\/li><li>Schizophrenia<\/li><li>Addictions<\/li><li>Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder<\/li><li>Psychotic Disorders<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Insider tip<\/strong>:<em>&nbsp;A therapist\u2019s qualifications and experience are only part of the equation. Personality, culture, gender, ethnicity, age\u200a\u2014\u200athese are all things that play a role in any relationship. Ask them if they have experience with your issues. If they don\u2019t, ask if they can refer you to someone who does.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Final-Thoughts-600x315.jpg\" alt=\"Final Thoughts\" class=\"wp-image-29437 lazyload\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Final-Thoughts-600x315.jpg\" alt=\"Final Thoughts\" class=\"wp-image-29437 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Final-Thoughts-600x315.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Final-Thoughts-400x210.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Final-Thoughts-200x105.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Final-Thoughts-768x403.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Final-Thoughts.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/noscript><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"5--final-thoughts-\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Final_Thoughts\"><\/span><strong>Final Thoughts<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>A good therapist can be the difference between profound mental anguish and peace of mind. It takes work, but you can get there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Before you schedule your first appointment, take the time to learn about your therapist and what he or she can\u200a\u2014\u200aand cannot\u200a\u2014\u200ado for you. Remember: a well-informed client is an empowered client.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you aren\u2019t comfortable seeing a therapist face-to-face, you should consider seeing a counselor online. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I like to refer people to <a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow sponsored\" href=\"https:\/\/www.betterhelp.com\/blunttherapy\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"rank-math-link\">BetterHelp<\/a>, which I have used myself. It&#8217;s terrific and well worth the money.  You get your own therapist with the option to speak to them via chat, phone, or video. I wrote a <a class=\"rank-math-link ek-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/review-of-betterhelp-online-counseling\/\">review about BetterHelp<\/a> that might help you out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/category\/therapy\/\">Therapy<\/a> is effective for 85% of all people who participate in it, so what are you waiting for?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Suggested_Reading\"><\/span><strong>Suggested Reading:<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul><li><strong><a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\" class=\"ek-link\" href=\"https:\/\/hasofferstracking.betterhelp.com\/aff_c?offer_id=2&amp;aff_id=1614&amp;url_id=25\" target=\"_blank\">Finding The Right Therapist For Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder<\/a><\/strong><\/li><li><a class=\"ek-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/online-therapy-review\/\"><strong>Is Online Therapy Right For You?<\/strong><\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.blunt-therapy.com\/mental-health-products-and-services\/\" class=\"rank-math-link\"><strong>Online Mental Health Products and Services<\/strong><\/a><\/li><li><strong><a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" class=\"ek-link ek-link\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/hasofferstracking.betterhelp.com\/aff_c?offer_id=2&amp;aff_id=1614&amp;url_id=53\" target=\"_blank\">Psychiatrists Online: Reasons To Choose An Online Psychiatrist<\/a><\/strong><\/li><li><strong>Or, take this <a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow sponsored\" class=\"ek-link\" href=\"https:\/\/hasofferstracking.betterhelp.com\/aff_c?offer_id=2&amp;aff_id=1614&amp;url_id=32\" target=\"_blank\">Depression Quiz<\/a><\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<section class=\"wp-block-uagb-section uagb-section__wrap uagb-section__background-color uagb-block-540ad93d\"><div class=\"uagb-section__overlay\"><\/div><div class=\"uagb-section__inner-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-call-to-action uagb-block-73105e3b wp-block-button\"><div class=\"uagb-cta__wrap\"><h5 class=\"uagb-cta__title\">Private Practice  with No Overhead and No Shortage of Clients.<br><\/h5><p class=\"uagb-cta__desc\">Join\u00a0the more than 34,000 full and part-time therapists who are earning more with BetterHelp! Supplement your income, or build your own practice from scratch. Bonuses &amp; Incentives for High Performers! <strong>Sponsored Advertisement<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"uagb-cta__buttons\"><a href=\"https:\/\/hasofferstracking.betterhelp.com\/aff_c?offer_id=20&amp;aff_id=1614\" class=\"uagb-cta__button-link-wrapper wp-block-button__link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Join BetterHelp<\/a><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you&#8217;re shopping for a new therapist, it&#8217;s important to make sure they&#8217;re a good fit. 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